tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post1463554857918754576..comments2024-03-29T04:13:44.353-04:00Comments on BigCityLib Strikes Back: Leonard Sax On Boys Today: They're Wimps And They Jack Off Too Muchbigcitylibhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05081538803991095825noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-5429210339330778082010-02-15T12:35:38.880-05:002010-02-15T12:35:38.880-05:00Interesting information is very useful for many pe...Interesting information is very useful for many people the truth seems to me important to read an articles of this kind, thanks for sharing with us and I want to read an article about <a href="http://www.negocioinversiones.com/" rel="nofollow">Negocio Inversiones</a> because I want to start a businessUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07111789667246914066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-61008080182556869162009-11-04T15:11:34.209-05:002009-11-04T15:11:34.209-05:00hey buddy great post about Leonard Sax On Boys Tod...hey buddy great post about Leonard Sax On Boys Today: They're Wimps And They Jack Off Too Much, I'm very interesting in this topic, i would like to know if you have information about <a href="http://www.dentalresearchnews.com/" rel="nofollow">Dental Research</a>Sergio Negrinniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08632806129963605463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-12919068258518626602009-03-06T07:10:00.000-05:002009-03-06T07:10:00.000-05:00Investigators have traced fake Viagra and cialis p...Investigators have traced fake <A HREF="http://www.viagrathunder.com" REL="nofollow">Viagra</A> and cialis pills being produced in secret factories in China and Pakistan, with distribution networks in Hong Kong, Dubai, the Bahamas and the UK. <A HREF="http://www.viagrathunder.com" REL="nofollow">http://www.viagrathunder.com</A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-68118014466926162002008-01-20T00:22:00.000-05:002008-01-20T00:22:00.000-05:00Bored:Ti-guy has some deep-rooted issues, and glea...Bored:<BR/><BR/>Ti-guy has some deep-rooted issues, and gleaning from his various comments, probably relating to unresolved sexual issues. I think one needs to look no further than that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-29218263998671987932008-01-19T18:21:00.000-05:002008-01-19T18:21:00.000-05:00How come it's always other people who have been fe...<I>How come it's always other people who have been feminized, huh?</I><BR/><BR/>Good point.<BR/><BR/>The issue is with the word <I>feminised</I>; it's meaningless to describe the issues they're griping about here. You know it means (for them) <I>undesirable</I> or unappealing characteristics, and is, at heart, sexist.<BR/><BR/>What they lament about these boys has nothing to do with <I>feminisation</I>...lack of motivation, ambition and interest, poor socialisation, bullying...those aren't feminine qualities. They're poor ways to cope...for anybody.Ti-Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06620550471437012866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-88162569796751646222008-01-19T17:21:00.000-05:002008-01-19T17:21:00.000-05:00Just once, I would like one of these critics to gi...Just once, I would like one of these critics to give us a first person account, as in "My name is Anon, and I've been feminized." How come it's always other people who have been feminized, huh?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-44246576001981755482008-01-19T16:18:00.000-05:002008-01-19T16:18:00.000-05:00After 40 years teaching, I can attest to the fact ...After 40 years teaching, I can attest to the fact that there are precious few male role models at the elementary level. You're right. BCL, it's mostly crowd control and the latest weapon is 'zero tolerance'.<BR/> <BR/>I always used the gym or schoolyard, myself, and tired the beejeesus out of the kids with sports and games. Appointing the so-called 'bullies' as leaders whenever possible had positive results. In a pinch, we'd push back the desks, string a net across the room and play volleyball with balloons.Sometimes <BR/>badminton with rackets and balloons.We called it Preferred Activity Time (P.A.T.)and it was well-earned. Of course,using a half hour or so at the end of a day with nine year olds cannot be done with older kids. I brought in men (husband, school caretaker, manager of a nearby car dealership, etc.) to read aloud their favourite books. The ADHD boys, as Jerrold called them, loved to earn their way to spending time with this men at their work. Girls chose time with the females (secretary, principal, etc.) but one of them did choose to spend time in the dealership garage washing cars. My small town school was a creative, safe environment. Lawsuits were not considered; parents trusted me and I trusted them. Communication was constant and I accepted many visits and calls at home. <BR/><BR/>Now in the city, I pick up my six year old grandson at the bus stop at four and find it sad to see his tired, emotionally rather flat countenance. Thankfully, a snack and some wild playtime outside changes that pretty quickly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-87502010926790390652008-01-19T13:17:00.000-05:002008-01-19T13:17:00.000-05:00One thing about these discussions...there's a lot ...One thing about these discussions...there's a lot blaming going on, but those who hardly ever get blamed for the crisis with boys (which I believe does exist, prime examples of which are the current paragons of masculinity we see among Conservatives) are...unsurprisingly...<I>men</I>...who, despite whining to the contrary, have been the ones in charge the whole time.Ti-Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06620550471437012866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-39741461537223223182008-01-19T12:54:00.000-05:002008-01-19T12:54:00.000-05:00Well, I haven't been around a working school in ag...Well, I haven't been around a working school in ages, but nothing that Sax speaks of in particular sounds like it has changed too much. I mean, the whole thing about sitting still. I grew up during the last few years when they were employing the strap. They used that to cure rambunctiousness, not encourage it.<BR/>Teachers could also cuff you upside the head for the same end.<BR/><BR/>Any of the control freakishness today I suspect comes from fear of lawsuits, rather than any sort of "feminization".bigcitylibhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05081538803991095825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23292180.post-57675158567534553872008-01-19T12:44:00.000-05:002008-01-19T12:44:00.000-05:00BCL - my experience of school mirrors yours as wel...BCL - my experience of school mirrors yours as well. I think though that school has become more feminized however. It's no surprise that the ADHD cases are almost always boys. They are naturally more rambunctious than girls. There is a control-freakishness that has taken root in our schools that has made them much more oppressive for your average kid than when you were in schoolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com